More Dirty Laundry: Would She Really Kick Me In The Stomach While Pregnant??
May 26, 2009
According to Claw’s husband, my ex, she would. Let me get this right, now I’m being threatened with violence…to my unborn child no less??? Nice. Perhaps a conversation they had over dinner? The story goes like this: The comment (left on last weeks article) was brought to my attention earlier today via email from a disgusted friend. The comment was in response to a tweet I wrote last week addressing her article opinions about me and my business. I felt the piece was mean spirited, negative and personal due to the fact that I did indeed go out with her husband for 3 years, a last jab if you will. Then the same day an article was written by Jezebel seemingly in my favor. So we have 2 articles, one negative by the girl who’s husband I had a long term relationship with and one by a credible news source. My tweet read like this “Judging by article, can you guess who’s husband I used to sleep with @Jezebel or @Blogue???” That’s a fact, it is what it is…and that’s what was on my mind after reading the shitty hateful article she wrote about me. Then we get a comment on the Blogue article, from the husband in question, that says (among other hateful things) “And watch how you come out the side of your face with Claw, you know she don’t wanna kick a bitch in the stomach on her first trimester - but believe me, she will.”
Wow! She spoke her mind about me and then I make a statement about why I thought the article was written and I get this piece of sh*t telling people I better be careful because she will kick me in the stomach?…with I’m assuming the intention of killing my unborn baby. The blog wars rage on I guess. I really don’t want to give either one of these people any attention but it’s so disgusting, trashy and ridiculous I had to write about it. Anyway, what grown man says this kinda shit???
It was very sad to read that Sam. It even kinda hurt me, being pregnant and all. I really want to believe that no one would actually mean such a thing.
And that’s all I have to say about that without throwin anymore mud around. It ain’t even worth it…
keep your head up mama
xoxo
Unfortunately, you’ve created a monster, no doubt. You could have probably averted that by handling things differently. Remember, you are in an industry full of competitive and driven folks. Keep your shit tight and you’ll stay out of more trouble.
Yea I agree…but it was hard for me not to defend myself or take a jab back when someone say’s shit about me. And I whole heartedly feel that her piece was written for the very reason I explained above. The kicking in the stomach comment made by my ex was outer limits…so over the top, I couldn’t not say something about it.
Exactly, a 30+ year old woman spewing such deplorable hate against a fellow business woman. Nothing warrants even a joke about kicking a pregnant woman in the belly. I do not know this woman personally, but what I did know about her was that she was that she had a respected clothing and accessories line. Well, that went down the drain in my eyes.
Opinionz-there is competiton and then there is libel, harassment, defamation, threats and slander.
Samantha, I just can’t let all of this go quietly. I keep commenting as I am truly enraged!!! (But you probably could see that…)
@Rachel It’s redic, it’s draining. The best solution would obviously be to let sleeping dogs lie but I just can’t, not when I read something like that. It’s frustrating.
Hahahaha I’m not on a side in this whole thing whatsoever but this bitch “claw” or whatever is buns. The comment she left on the article.. “That said - stop talking slick, you know you don’t want it.” Sure. What a computer thug. So is her cornball ass husband. Reading her and her husband’s comments made me cringe and come down with a serious case of secondhand embarrassment. It sounded like they crammed every slang word they possibly could into a comment box to try to sound “hood”. Funny, I didn’t realize that talking shit on a blog = popping off at someone…
Samantha-Me neither. And certain people are trying to make you out to be something that you are not, so I am very happy to clarify, even though they are truly not worth it. There seems to be a very impressionable audience.
if i were you, i would report this claw character to the cops for threatening you with bodily harm. especially if she lives anywhere near you.
I’m thinking her jackass husband must still be pretty hung up on you if she hates you that much. With a crazy bitch like that for a wife, no wonder. I’m glad you found someone wonderful to marry and have kids with. Bullet = dodged.
Coming from a family that has a lawyer, there comes a point when someone crosses the line and you have choices to take the matter into your own hands legally against these people who are threatening you.
*has a lawyer in the family
Fuck Claw and her husband. I’d be fucking embarrassed if I were her. What kind of man implies that his wife would kick a pregnant woman? What a punk-ass, little dick thing to do. And what’s with this - “…And watch how you come out the side of your face with Claw…”? WTF kind of trailer-park, wannabe bullshit is that? This is some plain out ignorant shit. The worst part is just how thinly veiled an attempt this is to glom on some of the buzz you’ve been creating lately. Don’t sweat this pair of fucking losers. They are just lamenting the fact that their relevance has dried up and are tooth and nail, pathetically trying to stay in the public eye. Since the art market went south, Claw can’t sell hurt self-banding disguised as lame graffiti to clue-less morons.
omg that article is such crap and ummm your staff was not alerted via twitter. perhaps thats how sinead found out but i hardly consider her ’staff’. she was an unpaid blogger for a very short time. people need to chill the fuck out. if they think youre so ‘nothing’ then why spend time talking/thinking/stressing about you?
and joking, or maybe seriously? talking about kicking you in the stomach or anywhere, while pregnant? wow…
Wow, her husband sounds like a real catch. I can see why he’s your ex.
Wow, her husband sounds like a real catch. You had a lucky escape there.
Oops, WashRinseandRepeating myself!
fucked! they definitely crossed a line and i agree with the comments about contacting local authorities.
Yeah Claw seems definately threatened by you . Disgusting piece that was written , and your ex ..what a piece of work ! Samantha you have a great husband and a wonderful son and another on the way . You are truely blessed . Its people like Claw that dont have that , so she feels she needs to attack you . Jealousy is a sick disease , people need to get over it .
Its hard to turn the other cheek , but I believe that KARMA will play a part in this . It’s no ones business about what happened with you and your staff ..no one! You just keep cranking out these blogs ..wherever .. you have a great following and I think all your loyal fans and friends will follow you wherever you blog.
And hey , if this chickenhead Claw keeps talking about you , put it this way ..she’s making you a popular girl .
Oh god Claw is just being the psychotic unoriginal female that she is. I’ve known(ugh more like disliked) her for a while and trust me, she’s all talk and is incredibly jealous of you Sam. Of course she’s bothered by you and her husboo (and just between you and me and your blog readers, she should be paying more attention to him) and the fact that you’re successful. She is not (people take her and her “arty” blog/jewelery for a joke) and neither are these “unpaid bloggers”. So automatically you’ve got a big one up on them.
They’re unprofessional gutter trash and you’re a successful businesswoman embarking on a new direction. No one has the balls to lay a hand on you because you are much more well-liked than them. THEIR ASS WOULD BE GRASS. The fact that he even made a comment like that shows what disgusting and vile people they are. I hope to god they don’t breed in the future.
what kind of MAN? OR WOMAN? no MAN or WOMAN.
this is childs play and straight evidence if someone wants to fucking end up going to prison.
just like i said on claw’s shit show of a blog (which i only discovered via sam’s twitter) she and her disgusting husband belong in cages…any (minuscule) credibility she ever had is gone. and bitch shouldn’t put her nasty mug online….yeesshhh
Pretty pathetic. It takes a real man to make violent threats towards a pregnant woman over the internet.
And he didn’t even threaten to do it himself! He said his wife would do it! What a double-douche-bag!
She must be feeling so proud of him right now. Forever more she’ll be known (on here at least) as the woman who married Sam’s sloppy seconds and he turned out to be a e-thug pussyhole.
” e-thug pussyhole.” gross YET amazing.
claw is like 40 or someshit-acting like a 16 yr old hoodrat- and this bitch hadnt done graffiti in a fuck load of years, before she came up trying to capitalize on the graffiti she used to do( and tries to do now) she got lucky that no one other woman writer was doing it, and she had friends in the write places cause over all her graff is wack, her clothes and accessories are dated and only wanna be suburban bitches wear ‘em or tacky teenagers…
WHO THE FUCK DOES THAT BITCH THINK SHE IS?! Sam, I don’t even know you but i love you and at the risk of sounding all cheesy and shit, I want you to know Missbehave saved my fucking life. The magazine was more then just sassy fashion spreads and HALLIROUS writings, it was a bible for cool chicks who never really fit in anywhere. I am sad that its de-bunked, but I’m even more happy to know that Fritz had an amazing mother and that baby no.2 will as well. You are one HAWT dish, and even though we don’t know each other I know were connected (my crystal healing book told me this, just kidding!) Stay sassy sister <3
i have to admit that i read this post and my first thought was ‘thank god for my husband”. serious relief that my husband isnt a piece of shit like that. phew.
you know, i read that article and wondered what had crawled up her ass to be so negative and haterish toward missbehave…it kinda makes sense now. but no matter the personal history, threatening anyone, pregnant or no, is NOT okay. look at it this way: people who carry that much negativity around with them are going to get dragged down by it. the people who brush shit like this off and keep their heads held high are going to be way better off.
Be real SAMANTHA - you have always been jealous and obsessed with CLAW long before she was dating or married to your ex. You shouted in the old Mass Appeal offices “CLAW WILL NEVER BE IN MASS APPEAL” so maybe you should ask yourself why their is this bad blood? Because YOU started it, by being a hater so long ago. Obviously you still can’t get over that she never hired you as her assistant or took you bombing. Oh well.
lolololol - remember when you cut out sarah morrison from your youtube video because she was wearing a claw bag? sam, you know this is your fault for all your shit talking that created the beef. you have always tried to wield your power, some people just call your bluff.
Sam, It’s so redic that the haters that you have seem to gravitate towards stupid one name nicknames. How old are these women? The fact that they can’t leave you alone shows that you’re the quality person here.
And Claw is so fucking lame. She needs to stop pretending anyone on earth has any use for her.
jolene and ex missbehaver commented a mere 6 minutes apart…either haters are on the same time schedule or *gasp* it’s the same bitch commenting twice.
Anyone who criticizes Samantha here and does it without revealing their full name is a coward. Ex Missbehavior, what is your real name? Have the guts to state your case without hiding behind another name.
Anyone who criticizes Samantha here and does it without revealing their full name is a coward. Ex Missbehaver what is your real name? Have the guts to state your case without hiding behind anything.
@ex-missbehaver Hummm why don’t you say who you are because you could only be one of about 3 people. I can probably guess which one of you it is. FYI I can support or not support whomever I want in my personal projects. It’s no secret we never liked each other. Why don’t you not be a pussy and say who you are. Weak!
Jolene-I would cut out people from my magazine too if they were deemed unworthy. That’s what you call being an H.B.I.C. You aren’t revealing anything remotely noteworthy in anyones line of business.
I said it before and I’ll say it again…THIS SHIT IS MAD CHILDISH AND STUPID. People come here to read about being a “hipster mom” or whatever you want to call it. Sam, stop posting this shit and then going back & forth about it. Can’t you moderate comments? Be the bigger person and ignore this shit OR take it to the streets. What’s up with all this internet thuggin’? Women are always trying to bring each other down. It’s sad. And frankly, I don’t come here to read about what happened in yours and CLAW’s bedroom. I could care less. It doesn’t matter who started it, but it should end. RIGHT NOW W/THIS!
Jess this is Samantha’s blog, and if you can’t handle it, go elsewhere.
I’m wrong for NOT wanting Sam to feed this ignorance and childish behavior? I’m wrong for expecting grown ass women to act as such?
You’re right. This is Sam’s blog. I have enough sense to know that. But this is my mind and I’ll say what I want, when I want, and wherever I want. Thank you. Maybe if you stayed out of it, it could end. That’s all I’m asking.
thats fucked up! make your haters your motivators. I want back issues of missbehave, can I still cop that? wanna show my grandkids what I used to read.
Jess, you are adding only stress to the situation. Not to mention that there is no way that I am going to sit back and watch people attack her unjustly and selfishly. If you are unaware of how a friend will stick up for another, then perhaps you should look to gaining one.
Jess if you don’t like it get your own fucking blog.
My point exactly. Rachel, you are what? 30+ and you still don’t see how immature this is? I’m adding stress to the situation? Ok fine. Keep it going like a bunch of high school girls. Be the stereo-typical “mean girls” she had the nerve to post about the other day. Both of you are a contradiction to your age. Grow up and get a life. I came on this blog to read about cool mommy things and to support Sam. Not drama. All of this extra shit has turned me off. Then you have the nerve to insult me because I want her to be the bigger person about it all? As a friend, that is what you should want of her. Not to keep it going. Maybe you need to look up the definition of what a real friend and ADULT is and then BECOME one…since you want to go there.
More delusion on your part. You obviously don’t get it. I am an adult woman who will be ignoring your childish rants from now on. This is all your opinion and speculation, and whilst that is certainly allowed, it shouldn’t be done here. If you have any issues, email me directly, and stop harrassing both of us on a pregnant adult woman’s blog. Enough.
i actually agreed with Claws article.. almost 100%.. most of the things she said were true (i mean, you have to admit, they were true.. your business did kinda go under.. and you never did write but ok? her opinion is her opinion.. dont read it if you have a problem with it..)but i will say the comment her husband made, ridiculous.
[...] the belly during her first trimester but she will.” It’s been taken down but here’s Sam discussing the bizarre threat. He’s since dug himself a deeper hole by threatening to release nude pictures of her to which [...]
Oh man, DRAMA! If I live to see 30, I hope I too can talk in threatening retro slang about magazine politics beef. You guys are hard!
It seems as though this woman who’s upset with Samantha is either harboring some insecurities related to the fact that her (former) business associate is the ex of her husband, or she’s possibly jealous that Samantha has decided to discontinue the line of business that involved her in the first place. To say the least, the fact that this woman and her husband have both resorted to using such vulgar and threatening language neither justifies their issue nor does it make anyone sympathize with their situation. It probably served as a nice sting for Claw to learn that her husband is keeping pictures of naked women he used to date even though he’s now married. Or maybe she did know about it and that’s partly what fueled the hostility, as Samantha put it herself.
Bottom line: hang in there mama they can’t collectively be as dumb as his cornrows make him look to be, and anyone making physical threats against someone else let alone a pregnant woman probably has bigger problems than the one they’re trying to inflict on you.
hey don’t know you, first time visitor here, but read about the threats that your ex decided to issue you via the net & thought I’d pop in to say “what a loser, and I hope you sue his sorry (pathetic) ass! It’s disgusting to think someone would decide to post that their wife would do such a thing to a pregnant woman, or in front of someone’s kid even to the kids father. God I hope they never reproduce, what appalling irresponsible people…”
Only the biggest loser of the losers would ever release photos of their ex. Talk about reaching for straws. Why did she marry such an asshole? That says a lot about her.